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It Hasta be Pasta!

I haven’t written much about my growing old and the illnesses I’ve encountered in the past couple of years. Suffice it to say it’s been challenging, as well as revealing. Facing one’s mortality head on is both fascinating and, at times, frightening. Not that I’m afraid of death, just a little apprehensive about the process of dying. Truth to tell, I have lots of reasons to stay alive, not the least of which is my desire to see my girls (who are currently 25 and 22) grow into the confident women I have long hoped I was helping them become.

A couple of months ago I was reasonably certain my time was running out and I was facing the end – sooner than I had hoped for. My stage 4 CKD-caused anemia, my COPD, the onset of Afib, and the possibility I had had (or soon would have) a stroke was making the future look fairly grim. About a month ago, my cardiologist and my nephrologist agreed that giving me a blood transfusion of two units would be safe and would also be likely to help me feel stronger and more comfortable. They were right and ever since I received those two units of O+ I have felt much better than I have for well over a year.

As a result, I’ve been challenging myself physically in an effort to gain back some of the strength, as well as the muscle tone I’ve lost over the past couple of years. I used to enjoy shopping for groceries and cooking for the family. Also, I’ve been going out for dinner for years on Fridays with two of my former colleagues from Rocketdyne, as well as my younger daughter and the son of one of those friends. Occasionally, I would have them over and I would cook something for our dinner. I hadn’t cooked for them in quite some time.

So, last week I got a bug up my butt and decided to cook a special meal for us. Actually, it was precipitated by my wife anticipating my love of a good spaghetti sauce and asking me if I had a favorite recipe. Not having anything I could point to, I asked ChatGPT to find me a recipe for a bold, rustic meat sauce. It provided several and I picked on, after which Linda made a shopping list. Fortunately, Smart & Final was having a promotion offering free delivery with a minimum purchase of $35.00. I was able to order just about everything I needed and had it delivered. I then asked ChatGPT for a recipe for garlic bread. We had some Texas Toast in the freezer, but I wanted something a little more authentic.

Nothing like homemade spaghetti sauce

As a result, I had to do something I was a bit loathe to do; get into the car and head over to Trader Joe’s to purchase a Ciabatta baguette and, since I had also asked for a vegetable suggestion that would go well with the meal, I also picked up some fresh asparagus. The reason this was a big jump for me is that my walking is somewhat off-balance and halting. I have to be more aware of where I am and what I’m doing in order to avoid a misstep or a fall. I’ve had a couple of them in the past year or so. As of that Friday I had gathered all the ingredients I would need for the dinner, including a second baguette because my oldest’s cat, Lacy, had managed to break into the one I’d purchased and ate some of it.

When Friday had rolled around, I’d already put a couple of hours into the meal, what with planning, reading, and shopping. Now came the real test, not merely of the recipes I was using, but also of my stamina and ability to get done what needed to be done. I was, after all, making everything essentially from scratch. I didn’t bake the bread, nor did I grow the tomatoes of butcher the meat and make the sausage. However, I didn’t use a pre-made sauce or garlic bread. I had to finely dice a couple of carrots, an large onion, a couple stalks of celery, and about 14 cloves of garlic. I also had to slice up 8 ounces of mushrooms and finely chop up fresh Italian parsley and fresh basil. I had to measure out several herbs/spices, including oregano, thyme, basil, and fennel seeds. Normally, none of this would have been taxing, but with my weakness and instability, it was a bit of a chore. Imagine finely dicing carrots without cutting yourself when you have essential tremors. I was proud of that accomplishment.

So, Friday evening came around, my friends showed up (including my daughter and Steve’s son mentioned earlier) and the meal commenced. ChatGPT had even provided me with a timeline to follow, which was helpful, even though I have a long history of project planning and Gantt charting. Everything came out on time and I was pleased to be able to serve everyone, eventually including myself. Now I need to share the results with ChatGPT, since it’s asked for my feedback.


It’s In My Blood!

I was raised with baseball. When I was a little boy, actually a toddler, my grandfather would take me to see the Los Angeles Angels at Wrigley Field and the Hollywood Stars at Gilmore Field. This was in the early 50s. We would always get there early for batting practice. One of my earliest memories is of shagging a foul ball off of first base and being asked by Chuck Connors to give it back, which I did. I havenโ€™t lost any sleep over it, but I have kind of regretted that move. Things were a little bit different back then.

My grandfather, who lived with us, had been a catcher in the Chicago Cubs minor league system, and he spent a great deal of time teaching me how to pitch. I was a pitcher in Little League and a pretty good one as I recall. I used to spend hours in the backyard pitching against a chalk drawn strike zone on our brick wall. When the Dodgers moved from Brooklyn to Los Angeles in 1958, I attended many a game at the Coliseum, mostly with my grandfather, sometimes with my dad.

In 1984, which was a big sports year for me, I was able to purchase 20 pairs of season tickets from a friend who wasnโ€™t able to use them. The seats were in the loge section right by third base. We knew one of the people who worked at the hot dog concession and we would get his attention when we arrived and hold up fingers indicating how many Dodger dogs we wanted and he would hold up fingers indicating how long before theyโ€™d be ready. We could then go right up to the front of the line and grab what would always be double dogs as well. That was the year another friend of mine had a client who couldnโ€™t use his tickets to the Lakerโ€™s games and I bought 20 pair of tickets on the floor at the North basket, right behind Jim Hill. I think they were $12.50 each, and parking was $1.00. My brother and I were also able to attend the opening ceremony of the Olympics at the Coliseum, and in January of the following year, I was able attend Superbowl XIX at Stanford Stadium. My girlfriendโ€™s father was the Director of Photography for the Washington Redskins and he got us VIP tickets and all the amenities. I still have seat cushions from that Superbowl and, as Iโ€™ve share here, the 1981 World Series between the Dodgers and the Yankees.

I remained a loyal Dodger fan for the next 36 years until, in 1994, after a late season playerโ€™s strike, MLB cancelled the World Series for the first time since 1904. It was the only time it was cancelled over a labor dispute. I was livid, believing both the owners and the players were deeply disrespecting the fans, and I vowed never to give MLB another penny of my money. I kept that vow (with the exception of maybe two games I was invited to by friends) for the next 32 years. I stopped watching games on TV, though I would sometimes watch playoff and World Series games.

Baseball was still in my blood and playoff games, especially World Series games, were invariably exciting and produced some of the best action one could expect from the premier professional teams. I didnโ€™t watch every year, but I did watch fairly frequently at the end of the season. In 2023, I was able to accomplish something a friend and I had attempted the year the pandemic hit and cancelled our plans. We went to Arizona and attended a couple of spring training games, something I had never been able to do before.

Then something changed in late October of 2025. Linda and I had been going, with another couple, to a friendโ€™s house every Monday to have dinner and watch a movie. We decided to watch the game. Maybe it was the 18 innings. Maybe it was Shohei Ohtaniโ€™s incredible performance. Maybe it was Freddie Freemanโ€™s walk-off solo homer in the bottom of the 18th, but I decided it might be time to cancel my grudge and get back to enjoying baseball for the wonderful sport it is.

I didnโ€™t think about it much, as it was the end of the season (not that particular game, but after the Dodgers clinched). However, I recently downloaded the MLB app on my phone and have been listening to the games like I did when I was a kid and Vin Sculley was on the radio.

I bring all this up because many of my FB friends are Dodger fans and they have seldom heard a peep from me over the years. A few of them were not even born when I stopped watching or attending baseball games. As I get back into it and get up-to-speed on all the rules changes, as well as the players, virtually none of whom Iโ€™ve heard of before, I donโ€™t want anyone to think Iโ€™m some Johnny-come-lately to the game, or to the Dodgers. Iโ€™m not a wild-eyed fan, but I do have some history, and I love me some baseball.

Cross posted to Facebook


At The End Of The Day

I prompted Poe’s chatbot, “Assistant”, with the following. Its response seems almost like it enjoyed doing this.

“Write a corporate pep talk of at least 300 words that sounds reasonable, but is nothing more than corporate gibberish.”


Team:

As we embark on the next fiscal quarter, itโ€™s imperative that we synergize our verticals and double down on our core competencies to truly unlock cross-functional scalability. The paradigm shifts in our industry demand an agile mindset, and we are uniquely positioned to leverage our robust infrastructure to capitalize on emerging opportunities. Now is the time for us to think outside the box, lean into our KPIs, and disrupt the status quo with unprecedented velocity.

 Our mission is clear: we must amplify our operational bandwidth while maintaining a laser-sharp focus on customer-centric deliverables. This is not just about meeting expectationsโ€”itโ€™s about exceeding them at every touchpoint. By fostering an ecosystem of innovation and embedding a culture of excellence into our DNA, we can achieve a seamless alignment between our strategic objectives and ground-level execution.

 Remember, success in todayโ€™s dynamic landscape is not a linear journey. Itโ€™s about embracing iterative growth, harnessing actionable insights, and pivoting proactively when faced with volatility. Letโ€™s not forget the power of collaborationโ€”our ability to break down silos, ideate collectively, and drive end-to-end solutions will define our trajectory as market leaders.

 I urge each of you to take ownership of your deliverables and approach challenges with a growth mindset. Letโ€™s circle back to our organizational north star and ensure that every touchpoint in our value chain is optimized for maximum impact. The low-hanging fruit is ours to harvest, but we must also keep an eye on the blue-sky opportunities that will future-proof our success.

 In closing, I want to reiterate that our greatest asset is youโ€”the people who make this organization thrive. Together, letโ€™s move the needle, operationalize our vision, and deliver unparalleled value to our stakeholders. The sky is not the limitโ€”itโ€™s just the beginning. Letโ€™s make it happen!


SNL’s 50th & Paul McCarney

Somewhere in my garage there’s a box with a tape of the very first Saturday Night Live, when Don Pardo referred to the ensemble cast as “The Not for Ready for Prime Time Players”. I haven’t watched the show much in the past 10 years, but I made sure the 50th Anniversary Special was recorded in my YouTube TV subscription.

Unfortunately, this last bit was not recorded. I just watched it now and it’s wonderful, despite Paul’s aging voice. This was always one of my favorite medleys of theirs. I miss the strings, which I still heard (in my head) while listening to this.


Fitting

Did you know Donald John Trump is an impressionist? Here he is, captured by a courtroom artist, doing his impression of Sleepy Joe.


How About It, Men?

Every man who denigrates the Barbie movie should be required to watch this powerful soliloquy as many times as necessary to get it through their thick, manscaped heads that we (men, that is) need to be supportive of women’s equality (and, I might add, bodily autonomy).

Women DO hold up (more than) half the sky. Why TF wouldn’t we want them by our side, not behind us? With us, as equals.

Let’s try matriarchy for a couple thousand years, MK? It’s only fair. I, for one, would welcome it. Women deserve it, IMO.


50s Kitchen Chic

This photo and its caption were posted by a friend on FB. I both commented on it and shared it with my FB friends, saying: “This is a Mom kitchen to me. I never knew my paternal grandparents and my maternal grandparents lived with us. Our kitchen wasn’t precisely like this, but it was similar. We had a ‘breakfast nook’ that was partially built-in and, if memory serves, it was turquoise and pink, which was all the rage in the 50s. My strongest memory is of eating breakfast and listening to my mother’s favorite radio show, Don McNeill’s Breakfast Club, which originated in Chicago, where both my parents were born and raised.”

I actually grew up in three different places. Panorama City from a year and a half old until I was seven. Then Palms (West L.A.) for a year, then North Hollywood on the border of Sun Valley until I left home. Although I frequently noted my disappointment my family issues couldn’t be resolved in a half hour like Donna Reed’s did, I really had a great childhood, all things considered. I consider myself luck; some may say privileged … and they’d get no argument from me. Hardly wealthy, yet reasonably comfortable.


I Was Just Passing The Time

When I first ended up at Rocketdyne (it was serendipity, not a conscious move) I was gobsmacked knowing I was working on the Space Shuttle Main Engine program, with bonafide rocket scientists and engineers. It was 1987, almost exactly one year since Challenger exploded and I was working on the FMEA/CIL (Failure Modes and Effects Analysis/Critical Items List) in anticipation of the shuttle’s return to flight. There were frequent dead times while I waited for an engineer/scientist to bring me their work so I could input it into the format we were using to present the information.

I was just going through a folder I found stashed away that’s chock full of some of the things I created back then while I was bored. Keep in mind we only had dot matrix printers and early IBM PCs. I’m pretty sure we were using IBM XTs running Intel 8088 processors. Anyway, here’s one of the things I put together to assuage my boredom back then.


On The Rebound

I’ve finally recovered from my almost year-long downward spiral of both physical and emotional uncertainty and difficulty. My pacemaker is working as it should, the incision has healed completely, and I’ve pretty much recovered from the shock of being disqualified from what would have been somewhat of a dream job. The amount of prospective income lost from the incident would have made a huge difference in my and my family’s life. C’est la vie!

I’ve been keeping my FB friends up-to-date on my weekly activities regarding my physical/emotional recovery with short check-ins from either my return to golf or my return to the gym. Below are those posts for all but the last week of July.

The First Hole at Simi Hill G.C.

July 2 – Steve and I both hit some balls today, then putted for a while. For someone who’s barely touched a club since last August, I’m heartened by what I was able to do today. I don’t think I’ll be able to play a full round though, until later this year; maybe not until next year.

July 9 – I hit the ball a little better today. Not as far as I’d like, but mostly straight – which is very important. I once played the second hole (a par 5) with only a pitching wedge. I almost bogeyed it. I didn’t hit anything below my eight iron today.

Looking Out Toward The 10th Hole & The Practice Green

July 16 – Continuing to improve, but must remain patient. The last 10 months have really taken a toll on me – physically, mentally, and emotionally. I shared a large bucket of balls with Steve and his son, Jake. I’m beginning to recall swing thoughts and each week I’m hitting the ball better and more consistently. I’m sure I would benefit greatly from a few lessons, but I can’t afford them now. I’m beginning to look for work again.

July 17 – I went to the gym and actually worked out for the first time in nearly seven months, since my heart started acting up. It’s been four and a half months since pacemaker implant surgery, and my energy level continues to improve. I also sent my resume and a list of my writing/editing/proofreading experience to a headhunter who specializes in lawyers who want to change careers, accompanied with an introductory email. It’s a longshot but, as they say, nothing ventured, nothing gained. I’m ready for my next incarnation.

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